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Posing in the Country


Maybe it is because my ancestors were farmers.

Perhaps I just enjoy a different pace of life.

Whatever the reason, I love the country.

I wouldn't have a problem wearing flannel shirts, jeans, boots and a hat every day. Then at meal time I would throw on an apron to make homemade biscuits, ham, green beans and peach cobbler for dessert.

Big sky, rustic fences, silos, horses, tractors, cows, rolls of hay, and miles of wide open spaces. Most of all, it is quiet.

The country is very quiet and peaceful.

I could hear animals and buzzing bees.

Smells of freshly tilled soil and hay wafted through the air.

Later in the day when the sun wasn't so bright overhead, there were big puffs of white clouds that floated slowly across a clear, blue sky.



On a seemingly endless rocky road, we started taking photos. Of course, my viewfinder loves my daughter whether she is posing or just walking around being herself.



I didn't really dig the masks on the horses, but it sure was a beautiful stable.



A lovely abandoned, dilapidated house was a great backdrop. We both would have loved to go inside and explore, but our fear of spiders and snakes was too great.



You know you're in the country when the caution sign has a tractor on it.



A beautiful girl set against a view that lets the mind relax in the simplistic setting.



Corn. The staple for the first settlers in America. Today, the bright green leaves stretched for miles.



We happened upon a little stream that trickled over the rocks.



The little wooden bridge over the stream was the perfect backdrop or so we thought. A truck went over the bridge while we were on it and the whole thing shook. It scared us both and we hurried to get back on solid ground!



Silos. Nothing says farm like a large silo against the sky.



Baa-a-a-a-a-a.



Llama...not the typical farm animal.



Trips like these make me never want to return to the city and I long to have a stay at home career.




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Remembering With Gratitude


Memorial Day celebrations and the American flag

No matter where you live or who you are, if someone protects your life, your family, your freedoms and your country, I'm sure you feel a huge amount of gratitude for their sacrifices on your behalf.

Today is called Memorial Day in the United States and is a holiday to commemorate the men and women who died while in military service.

There will be celebrations of all kinds as tributes and gratitude in remembrance of those that kept our country safe by giving us the ultimate gift...their lives.

American flag

Thank you for preserving my freedom.




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Takes My Breath Away


Because of the dramatic and life altering event of the past few weeks, we are going to forgo the regular Men's Meme for a celebratory post.

Alyssa, I thought it was fitting to let you know some of the things we love about you....

Alyssa

  1. loving
  2. you still kiss me in public
  3. generous
  4. beautiful
  5. intelligent
  6. compassionate
  7. kind to animals
  8. a giver
  9. wonderful daughter, cousin, grand daughter, and niece
  10. funny
  11. a texting queen
  12. bubbly
  13. music lover
  14. shoes, shoes and more shoes
  15. beautiful singing voice
  16. you read 900 page books for pleasure
  17. spelling is not your forte'
  18. you're a makeup artist
  19. you help keep us more stylish in our dress...well, it is hard to help the unwilling LOL
  20. you can eat healthy and it started with salad at age three
  21. physically fit
  22. love photography and very good at it
  23. determined
  24. organized
  25. lotion
  26. forward thinking
  27. great cook
  28. fun to watch movies with...um, except scary ones
  29. great friend
  30. fantastic listener
  31. empathetic
  32. grateful
  33. love babies and animals
  34. long showers that drain the hot water heater
  35. jewelry
We are all so thankful to have you as a part of our lives and I'm sure I speak for not only your family, but your friends too. Everyone is praying for your full recovery and look forward to many wonderful years watching you grow and succeed.

It is sure nice seeing you smile!



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Prelude to the Country


Before going "into the country" today, Alyssa needed to make a brief stop at the Farmers Market.

I don't know if you have a place like this where you live, but I want to buy everything whenever I go into the store. There are rows and rows of beautiful produce, meats, cheeses, spices and a myriad of other items. However, for the trip today, Alyssa was looking for something that she usually doesn't eat...

Candy!

Every color and flavor candy imaginable is visible in clear containers side by side in long rows.


Of course, it took her a while to decide which sugary confection would satisfy the candy craving. I was hoping that whatever she chose would help her gain back the twenty-five pounds she has lost.


I just stood around like her shadow watching as she contemplated and examined one item after the next, My heart was full of gratitude that her life has been spared.


But eventually, Alyssa figured out just what the occasion warranted and gave me a smile so I would stop taking pictures of her in the store.


I think she was feeling especially Texan today which I'm sure inspired her footwear...


I think she's so beautiful and marveled all day that I gave birth to such a marvelous child.





"The child must know
that he she is a miracle,
that since the beginning
of the world there hasn't been,
and until the end
of the world there will not be,
another child like him her."
~Pablo Casals~











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Ways to Relax #5 - Nature


Ways to Relax


Nature is...
    peaceful

    quiet

    unhurried
and provides the perfect atmosphere to
    think

    ponder

    and contemplate ways to simplify life.
The still, glass-like surface of the lake beckons to the abundance of pebbles and rocks found at the water's rim.

The activity is simple.
    No rules

    No time limit

    No counting
Just a very easy, mindless action

that can free the soul of all chaos, worries

and helps to restore perspective.

That is why the fifth way to relax is skipping rocks across the lake.

skipping rocks on the lake

skipping rocks on the lake

skipping rocks on the lake

skipping rocks on the lake

skipping rocks on the lake

skipping rocks on the lake
Image: source





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First Big Bath


Bella {A Dog's Story}


Bella's thoughts on her first big bath...



"Hmmm, I think I like this stuff."





"I wonder why Alyssa is wearing a bathing suit?"





"I feel like a drowned rat.
I wonder if I look that way too."



"Why won't she leave my face alone!"



"Finally, that bath is over!
I feel so soft.
What can I get into now?"



"Paper!"



The life of a princess dog is just so hard...
Not!





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Chuckle of the Day - Taxi


taxi
Image: source


A passenger in a taxi leaned over to ask the driver a question and gently tapped him on the shoulder to get his attention.

The driver screamed, lost control of the cab, nearly hit a bus, drove up over the curb and stopped just inches from a large plate glass window.

For a few moments everything was silent in the cab. Then, the still shaking driver said, "Are you OK? I'm so sorry, but you scared the living daylights out of me."

The badly shaken passenger apologized to the driver and said he didn't realize that a mere tap on the shoulder would startle the driver so badly.

The driver replied, "No, no, I'm the one who is sorry; it's entirely my fault! Today is my very first day driving a cab. I've been driving a hearse for the past 25 years."






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Into The Darkness



The past two weeks have been a blur of emotions and events.

We are all still in different stages of shock.

I want to first say that Alyssa is alive. Those words continue to echo within my head every moment of the day.

It is a miracle.

I can not thank you all enough for your prayers and heartfelt support of Alyssa and my family. Your emails, comments on my blog and in my community have been repeating the words I have known my whole life. However, until now, I have never had so much fear or needed so much support.

It was a fear that filled every cell in my body and ached deep within my soul.

I will try to gather my thoughts and share the experience over the next week of sorrow, fear and now tentative happiness.

Alyssa has a bit further to go, but she is home.

At this point, she continues to have a large portion of her memory missing. Alyssa can recall very little of the last two months and spotty memories of the rest of her life. There are no memories of her seventeenth birthday, a visit from her father, things learned at school, how to drive, prom, and she still thought her puppy was tiny. She is scared and feeling rather lost, so we are hoping for an ever expanding miracle.

I've always "believed" that others could accomplish anything. I truly had no doubts. But as my frail, unconscious daughter hung onto life,

my faith wavered,

my soul wrenched with pain,

my mind was tormented with fear and doubt,

while I cried unceasingly.

I feel ashamed for my unbelief and weak spirit. Walking into the darkness, I faltered, stumbled upon my face and simply begged for my more time with my child. I can not thank God enough for answering my prayer with "yes" instead of the "no" that I frequently experience.




Wondering

At times in life we wonder
The reasons we must trod
Through uphill paths and valleys deep
As we strive to follow God.

At times we feel discouraged
And troubled is our soul,
We question as we wander
'Lord, why must this be so?'

But then that glowing answer
With wonder hear Him say,
'My Child, I've gone before you;
Just follow Me today...'

So, on and on we'll wander
And with hand clasped tight in Thine;
Lord, lead me ever onward
And let Your will be mine.

Author, Venessa Litewski












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Intensive Care Update


I can not thank you all enough for your prayers. I am so filled with gratitude that Alyssa is alive that words truly escape me. I have been told by numerous physicians, especially given the petite size of my daughter, that it is truly a miracle that she is living. I know that God had his hand in her life and that she has more to do before she leaves this earthly existence.

At this time she is under constant care. She does not remember anything about the last month and no details about any other part of her life. From day to day she forgets everything that happened on the day before. I have to keep explaining to her things that have happened. Alyssa is upbeat and says that she feels as if we are all talking about another girl in a movie because she simply remembers nothing.

Alyssa has lost twenty pounds and appears small and frail almost like a first grade child. As wrought with sorrow for all that has happened, I am so grateful that she is alive.

Please continue to pray for her. It is still too soon to know when she will return home, but I will keep you updated. She has the best doctors caring for her and they are hopeful that this will have a happy ending. I guess I really am weak because my faith waivers in spite of the miracle of her life so far. Thank you again for your well wishes, faith, hope, encouragement and prayers. I hope God blesses each of you.


A happy picture of Alyssa on my birthday this year...

My daughter, Alyssa



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Intensive Care

I apologize for no communication or posts, however, this is my first opportunity to be home from the hospital. My daughter had a reaction to medication which has her in intensive care. I would appreciate your prayers on her behalf for a healthy recovery.

Thank you.



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