Flowers For Mother

by Sherry Riter in Alyssa,Flower,Memory,Mom

When I was a little girl, I always took my mother flowers that I picked from the yard even if the flowers were in reality, weeds. I would invariably give her flowers with stems that were an inch long with a jagged edge where I yanked it from the bush. I even remember giving her flowers that fell apart as I passed it to her because the stem was non-existent and there was nothing to hold the petals together. Mom was overjoyed and thanked me profusely every time, seemingly oblivious to the short to non-existent stem. Then, putting the flowers in a little cup filled with water, she would continue with the accolades. Mom had a way of conveying that she thought I was special and everything I did was wonderful.

Flowers last longer if they are cut at a slant with a sharp, unserrated knife and immediately placed in water unlike those I gave my mother as a child. By cutting the stems at a slant, more of the surface is exposed and more water can travel into the flower quickly. Also, removing all the leaves that would otherwise be under the water helps to extend the life of the flower. Mom didn’t have to worry about leaves because I don’t think I ever had a stem long enough to be accompanied by leaves or I had preplucked them off.

Every little child I have known acted the same including my daughter, Alyssa. On the flip side, I acted the same way my mother did whenever Alyssa presented her gift of flowers to me. I oooohhh’d, aaaaahhh’d and thanked her profusely, totally ignoring the fact that my flowers were basically stemless. Her little face would beam and her smile always melted my heart as much then as they do now.

The other day I was sitting at the computer when Alyssa, then 16 and now 17 years old, came in and presented me with a beautiful Dogwood blossom. There she stood like a little girl waiting for the oooohhhing and aaaahhhing over her flower gift. I was more than happy to accommodate and immediately put it in a glass filled with water. Alyssa’s beaming smile was joy to my eyes and heart.

Later that evening as I sat staring at my little Dogwood blossom floating in the glass, I had to chuckle because some things just don’t change. The stem on the flower is about half an inch long just like the flowers I used to give my mother. I guess stem length really doesn’t matter after all because the Dogwood flower remained perfectly beautiful for ten days!

“Earth laughs in flowers.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson~

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Sherry Riter is also known as The Redhead Riter. Sherry is witty, intelligent and addictive as she writes about cooking, family, marriage, failures, blogging tips, art, humor, inspiration, travel, PTSD and aging. Her goal is to inspire, motivate, educate and to make her audience laugh. Sherry embraces being a redhead and helps others to see the redhead point of view…"In some eras redheads were worshipped while others thought us witches. Personally, I like the former and think every day is 'Love a redhead day!'" She can also be found on Facebook, Google+, Pinterest, StumbleUpon, Linkedin, tweeting as @TheRedheadRiter and you can subscribe to her free blog feed.

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1 Let'sMakeADifference April 20, 2010 at 12:05 am

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post! The photos are beautiful!


2 notesfromnadir April 20, 2010 at 12:06 am

What a beautiful story! 🙂


3 Ann On and On... April 20, 2010 at 1:17 am

That was so touching… We learn so much from our parents. Good roll models are priceless. So are beautiful stemless flowers.


4 w April 20, 2010 at 3:14 am


my girls pick weeds. you know. the ones with tiny flowers at the ends. i "ohhh" and "ahhh" and they just love it. and you know… so do i.


5 Trac~ April 20, 2010 at 9:48 am

Awww… so beautiful! I always love getting flowers from my baby girl who is also 16 going on 17. Thanks for sharing and thanks for stopping by and becoming a new follower. I am now a follower of your blog as well. Have a great day! :o)


6 Oh Sew Good April 20, 2010 at 12:56 pm

I thought I was going to have to run an get some Kleenex but I did alright this time around. Beautiful story!


7 Daisygirl April 20, 2010 at 2:40 pm

you and your daughter have the sweetest relationship!!! I love this story!


8 Nadia April 20, 2010 at 4:20 pm



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